Crying is such a pain in the butt

Crying sucks. We cry when we are happy, when we are sad, when we are angry, when we stress so much we just got to let it all out, we cry when our hearts get broken. What ever the reason is, when we start crying we can't stop the tears, especially when we are  sad and hearts are involved. Once those tears exit the eyes and start flowing down our cheeks telling ourselves to stop is impossible. We just have to let them stop on their own. They might have pausing intervals or breaks, but when our mind wanders to the reason why we started crying in the first place they start to overflow again. Crying is a pain

People say those who are sensitive cry more often; I find that to be true. I am one of those sensitive beings, I do cry more than normal people. I try to not cry, but I can't always successfully do so. We are more sensitive, we are more emotional, we take things more serious than others because we put more effort into those things or feelings than most people, so when a thing or our feelings are tossed aside we get emotional and we start to cry. 

How to deal with someone who is crying. Don't say stop crying ESPECIALLY if you are the reason we are crying in the first place. You know you are the reason so don't deny it and don't act as if you don't care. That action alone is pouring fuel to the fire. Consoling us is nice and the correct step in helping us feel better and stop crying faster. ( you want us to stop crying faster) If it is not your fault wait for us to calm down, if you know the reason don't ask, wait for us to start talking, if you don't know the reason you may ask and then after you hear the answer, you should ask how you should help just out of courtesy.

Well now that you guise know all about crying try to make the place happier~
~Vic

Blogging again

So I decided to start blogging again, even though I am lacking a reading audience. Hah. I don't feel as if my blog entries are interesting at all for people to read but I guess I am really doing this for myself as a 'what I feel and experienced in my life' type of blog. It will have many random post; some maybe ridiculously long with many pictures which are more interesting and entertaining in general (If I can remember to take pictures), and some maybe damn short because I am not good at writing anything. (Even writing this blog post is hard as I am trying to find interesting things to say, how come we never know what to say or write when it is time to do so?)

Anyways.... this weekend I shall be going to Sea World in San Diego. How exciting right? I managed to get a pair of free tickets from a awesome classmate friend that works there. Perks yey. I sorta bribed her with chocolate, but hey she offered the tickets to me and I felt bad so I just bought like 4 awesome chocolate slabs for her and I'm pretty sure she enjoyed them very much. Mwahahaha
I'll try to remember to take the pictures and post them up for my invisible empty audience. heh.

Why do I have so much to say in real life? I can't stop talking about myself (narcissist) but when I have to say it here, I sound so boring. :'C

If there is someone reading this here, I want to redesign my blog, so need some ideas? Please send me ideas , k thnks :)
~V

Gravity

Light Spoilers
Just watched "Gravity" and oh my, it was so good!
If you haven't heard or seen the movie "Gravity" starring Sandra Bullock yet, I am telling you go watch it. It does not start out slow with a lot of background, but jumps into the story. When watching the movie, you find yourself holding your breath when she is, gasping for air when she is, and fearing her fear. It was such a great movie certainly deserves it's 9 out of 10 score. Also you get to see her very nice fit body. ;) I am so jelly. >.<
~V

New Year's Resolutions

Once again we have come to a full circle,

It always returns to this point. The beginning of a new year. The time of making our New Years Resolutions.

Every year at this time, all of us start a list of our goals. 

We want to lose weight

Find a better job

Eat healthier

Quit smoking

etc etc etc...

Every year... 3 months into our goals, we will always find that we have put aside those goals and resolutions because they have gotten in our way of other short term satisfaction that we found.

Every year I tell myself I am going to lose weight! Anyone want to guess how well that is going? No where.... My goodness I am a lazy piece of ****! T_T I am a quick fix type of person. I don't like the fact that losing weight is a process and a lot of work. Knowing how lazy I am does not help one bit.

Just yesterday (New Years eve) day my friend Clam told me a nice body (Thanks clam ^_^) and asked if I worked out. "Ahahaha.... no... but I should" His response was something along the lines of  "you could be really athletic if you work out cause I have the body for it" or something like that. Correct me if I am wrong Clam. Also I am taking advantage of the fact that I have the type of body I got. Omg he can't be anymore correct. ><  

I actually don't have the body I let everyone think I do though by wearing clothes that hide it and flexing my stomach to pretend I have abs. Hahaha... ha.... sob sob sob* T_T

Must... get... lazy... butt...to run.... i hate running...
Must look like a sexy beast so boyfriend doesn't leave me. < ROFL

Rawr!!! does sit ups*

~Vic

Something New

To the bloggers out there,

Does anyone else think that there are not many new things that are interesting to blog about anymore. I mean I look through a bunch of blogs and 2/3 of the blogs out there are about make up, beauty, and fashion. Although I am not saying I don't do any of those type of post, it seems like most blogs only consist of these things now. Is there anything new and awesome for us to share to the world that does not consist of the superficial vanity? Yes I am victim to a lot of these blogs. I love reading about skincare, cosmetic advertisements that bloggers write about and the fabulous styles that they have on that day. Although they are mighty entertaining, I can't help but hope that there would be something else that will catch out attention one day. Something great, innovative, and amazing.

Btw I really like reading xiaxue's blog. So entertaining. :3
xiaxue.blogspot.com
Although I don't agree with all her opinions, I still love reading her blog :3

Hope everyone is having a great winter break. I'll be working a couple days this break at an art studio that I used to take classes at. I think I will be helping kids on their Chinese Brush painting. < My forte. haha. 

I'll update if something interesting happens. ^_^
~Vic