Thursday, October 17, 2013

Crying is such a pain in the butt

Crying sucks. We cry when we are happy, when we are sad, when we are angry, when we stress so much we just got to let it all out, we cry when our hearts get broken. What ever the reason is, when we start crying we can't stop the tears, especially when we are  sad and hearts are involved. Once those tears exit the eyes and start flowing down our cheeks telling ourselves to stop is impossible. We just have to let them stop on their own. They might have pausing intervals or breaks, but when our mind wanders to the reason why we started crying in the first place they start to overflow again. Crying is a pain

People say those who are sensitive cry more often; I find that to be true. I am one of those sensitive beings, I do cry more than normal people. I try to not cry, but I can't always successfully do so. We are more sensitive, we are more emotional, we take things more serious than others because we put more effort into those things or feelings than most people, so when a thing or our feelings are tossed aside we get emotional and we start to cry. 

How to deal with someone who is crying. Don't say stop crying ESPECIALLY if you are the reason we are crying in the first place. You know you are the reason so don't deny it and don't act as if you don't care. That action alone is pouring fuel to the fire. Consoling us is nice and the correct step in helping us feel better and stop crying faster. ( you want us to stop crying faster) If it is not your fault wait for us to calm down, if you know the reason don't ask, wait for us to start talking, if you don't know the reason you may ask and then after you hear the answer, you should ask how you should help just out of courtesy.

Well now that you guise know all about crying try to make the place happier~
~Vic

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